"Common Signs
of a Cheating Spouse"
If you think your Husband is cheating:
Chances are that if you suspect your husband
is cheating on you, he probably is. But before you call your lawyer or if you
think you're just being paranoid, check out these signs of infidelity.
1. Your cheating husband tells you he just
hired a new assistant and that she's not
very pretty. However, when you meet her for
the first time, she's absolutely gorgeous. If your husband isn't cheating, or
thinking about it, he wouldn't lie to you
about her looks.
2. Cheating husband comes home with lipstick
on his collar and says a colleague
accidentally bumped into him.
3. Suddenly, cheating husband starts coming
home later than usual. He makes excuses that
he's working late or hanging around with
buddies for a couple of drinks after work.
Many times he's telling the truth, but if it
happens more often then not, you may have a problem.
4. You are getting phone calls from women
who claim that they work with your husband and have to ask him something
important. When cheating husband picks up the phone he whispers, or tells that
person that he'll call later.
5. All of a sudden cheating husband starts
exercising and his grooming habits have
changed.
6. You find a abnormal hair on his personal
belongings, clothes, or his car.
7. Cheating husband comes home late and you
feel like "being romantic" and he tells you
he has a headache!
8. He starts bringing you flowers and acts
especially nice, but you feel suspicious
about his true intentions. Your gut feeling
is usually right!
9. The only way to know for sure, is to
catch him in the act. If you really believe your husband is cheating, you'll have to ask
him or catch him yourself.
10. One especially good trick to try, is to
press the re-dial on his phone. It's sneaky,
but effective. You never know whom he may be
calling.
11. You come
home and you notice that the toilet seat is
down more often than not. Men are more
likely to leave it up. If your husband is
not leaving it up, a mistress could be putting it down.
If you think your Wife is cheating:
Some men who suspect their wife are cheating
may be in denial and refuse to believe it. Well, for all those other men
who are willing to seek the truth, check out
these signs of a cheating wife.
1. After 10 years of marriage cheating wife
tells you that she's overweight and has
hired a personal trainer.
2. You find a charge slip in the waste
basket from a nearby motel by mistake.
3. You find a present she says was from her
mother. You open the box and find a pair of sexy panties.
4. You come home one day and find a
cigarette butt in the ashtray, yet nobody in the house smokes.
5. She's uncharacteristically spending money
on new clothes.
6. The phone rings several times within a
week and when you pick it up they hang up.
7. Cheating wife starts acting like a
teenager who has a crush on the quarterback.
8. Your wife tells you that she's visiting a
friend who is sick. This one is a classic, and it happens all the time.
9. Cheating wife says that she loves you,
but doesn't act like it. Remember, a person is judged on what they do, not what
they say.
10. You are driving in the car together and
hear the Eagles song, "Lyin' Eyes," and she cringes as she changes the station.
If this sounds like your life, you will need
some real evidence. Luckily, this is very easy thanks to today's technology.
Here are some
signs your spouse may be cheating online or
may be having a cyber affair:
1. Spending
increasing amounts of time on the computer,
spending less and less time with you.
2. Computer
time is very secretive and may be a 'behind
closed doors' affair.
3. If your
spouse becomes agitated by your presence
while they are on the computer.
4. Your
spouse quickly hides or closes windows on
their computer screen the moment anyone walks into the room where they
are using the computer.
5. Spends
much of their time while on the computer at
chat sessions, forums, or instant messaging
with strangers.
There is a
very simple way you can determine what your
spouse is actually doing while on the computer. Spy
software is available online or at your
local computer store. Know the "real"
reason your spouse is up to 3:00 a.m. on the
computer instead of
in bed with you. |
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